MANUSIA EGO, BANGGA DIRI, DENGKI

have you come across these kind of people in your life.. of course you have kan.. rasanya semua manusia ada perasaan ego,bangga diri, dengki dan mementingkan diri (selfish). I m sure most of us experience the dengki/jealous at one time or another, if excessive sangat boleh buat orang benci dan menyampah and are just a bad group of folks to deal with.

1) Ada yang bangga diri, perasan diri tu bagus sangat padahal ada orang yang lagi bagus dari mereka (for sure tak tahu sebab dok perasaan diri sendiri bagus sangat)

2) Ada yang dengki tak tentu hala, dalam hati tu ada aje yang tak kena ngan orang lain, kritik sana, kritik sini.. pelik-pelik...

3) Ada yang bangga diri, macam diri tu perfect sangat padahal no body is perfect in this world

Yang nak dengki dengki tu apa hal??? tak paham betul.. anyway i m expressing it as i feel that it's human nature always not satisfied with other people, my word of advice --- cukup-cukup lar tu.. you will be more miserable if you continue.

here are step by step instructions to overcome that sick behaviour..

Step1
Remind yourself that you are comparing yourself to something or something and that factors may exist that make the comparison unfair or uninformed. For instance, you might envy the best looking girl in class, but not know that she has a severe learning disability that saddens her.

Step2
Count your blessings. Think of what you have rather than focusing on what you don't. Live in the moment.

Step3
Remember some people are out to show off what they have. These people probably have a great need to feel important or have low self-esteem. Boasting hides their insecurity. Feel sorry for them, not envy.

Step4
Treat people kindly and find ways to be of service. Appreciate yourself for the good in you, not what you own or wear.

Step5
Keep yourself busy and continue to seek learning. Develop your talents or learn new ones. While others may have everything that you don't, you have talents that you can share and influence others for good. If someone is better at you at one thing, you can surpass them with other skills if you put in the time to improve yourself.

Step6
Look for the good in others and compliment them when you can. This can help others feel special about themselves and help you to concentrate on the good you can do instead of being envious.

Step7
Keep in mind that being envious of others is a disservice to yourself. It can stunt your emotional growth, make you small minded and increase your overall negativity until people don't want to be around you.

Step8
Choose to be happy. Don't let others' actions affect you. Really, their lives have nothing to do with yours.

Step9
Pray for strength to do what's right and be happy with who you are.